How to Teach Your Puppy Good Manners!

Jumping, nipping, darting through doors, oh my! These puppy antics can keep even a seasoned pup parent on their toes! Here are some simple training techniques that will help you get these behaviors under control!

 

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No matter what breed, new puppies are seemingly full of boundless energy! And when left unguided, can get up to all sorts of mayhem! Some of those staple “bad” behaviors include jumping up, nipping (bare feet and hands beware!), and darting through doorways. But these aren’t really bad behaviors as much as they are natural puppy development stages that need the appropriate leadership and training!

In short, by learning some common puppy behavior causes and applying just a few tried and true training techniques, you will be able to transform your pup into a well-mannered member of the family, just like we do with our students at The Puppy Academy!

#1. Stop Jumping!

By far one of the toughest puppy behaviors is jumping up! Whether it’s standing up to get closer to their food, water, on top of furniture, or even on your guests, puppies just seem to want to jump on everything to get to what they want. And from a puppy’s perspective, they don’t understand the difference between when jumping is okay or when it’s not, until we teach them. 

If your puppy received attention for jumping up on you or someone at home — even if unintentionally, for example, a head pat to acknowledge them — or if they jumped up and grabbed a special “treat” left on the coffee table, they’ve been rewarded for their jumping and it’s actually encouraged them to do it again – so they can get that reward again.

This is why puppy-proofing is so essential to eliminate anything that may entice your puppy to jump and grab. But what about the jumping on people part? 

Puppies learn fast that if they jump up when you’re walking through the door, for example, they’ll get a response from you. And your attention is all they want! So now the goal is to redirect that impulsive energy and train them to do something else instead. Having a solid "Sit" command is a great go-to command to gain back control of a situation. It also acts as your puppy asking "Please" before you give them something they want like food, water, a toy, or some rubs from you.

Regardless of what your puppy jumps up for, you'll want to teach your puppy to "Sit" first!

  • To teach Sit, you can do this by bringing a treat close to their nose and then guide it upwards over their head so they naturally follow the treat with their nose, and their backside should automatically touch the ground. 

  • As they are sitting say “Sit” followed by “Good!” and reward them with a treat (or toy, depending on what your pup responds to) when their butt hits the floor to mark the correct behavior! 

  • Repeat this training exercise often so your puppy learns to Sit really well and gets used to it.

  • Next, start asking for a Sit each time you’re about to give them something to play with, to chew on, to eat, before you bend over to pet them, etc. to create the association that they receive the reward they want for calm behavior they show. Keep practicing and soon this will become an automatic habit for them to Sit calmly and wait!

Impulse control training like this starts small, such as asking your puppy to Sit and wait when giving them their food and water bowls. The most important takeaway is to continue to regularly practice this training routine in any situation where your puppy may be templed to jump up! 

If you puppy is completely overexcited and you have a hard time calming them down, check out our blog: How To Calm An Over-Excited Puppy!

#2. Ban Door-Bolting!

Puppies are curious about everything, so an open doorway is an invitation to a whole new world for them to run and play in! The problem with this behavior is that it poses a risk to their safety and yours. As your puppy grows into an adult dog, they may continue to think it’s fun to run out any chance they get and could potentially run into a busy street or yank suddenly on the leash and cause you to fall. 

A large part of training your puppy good manners is establishing good communication and your role as your pup’s leader early on so they continually look to you for guidance. By establishing threshold boundaries and having your puppy learn to wait patiently and check in with you before crossing doorways (including the crate!), you are building upon that relationship and their trust in you. Training your puppy to be calm in thresholds involves asking them to sit, wait, and make eye contact with you, NOT charging through ahead of you!

  • With your puppy in a harness and leash, ask your puppy to Sit at your doorway, and get them to check in with you (ie. make eye contact). Call their name to get their attention, or use a treat to lure their nose up to your eyes to create the habit of establishing eye contact. 

  • Slowly, start opening the door a little bit, and if they start to get up or try to lunge out, close the door again and reset. This may take a few times to get so remain patient and take your time! Repeat this training exercise over and over, until your puppy understands that at an open door they remain in Sit until you give them the next command to move through the threshold with you, like Heel

  • Practice this in different settings too, not just at home, and make sure you lead your puppy through the doorway, not them leading you!

#3. Nip Nipping in the Bud!

Nipping, especially during play, is a natural way for pups to learn how to test boundaries and their own strength. The problem is when they decide to make your hands and feet their favorite target! If left without the proper training, some puppies may even continue to mouth and play this way later into adulthood when this behavior could result in more serious harm and habits.

Luckily there are certain ways to manage your puppy’s nipping and discourage it from escalating. These can be:

  • Using a toy to play with your puppy instead of your hands

  • Giving them a calm “time out” when their nipping increases (which can often mean they’re overtired)

  • Reducing how much time they spend in your arms and are being pet (puppies often nip out of frustration)

  • Having chew toys to redirect them too when needed so they understand the appropriate thing to nibble on (instead of you!)

For more details on these tactics and more, check out our blog: How to Stop Your Puppy from Nipping!

Get Hands-On Help From Our Trainers!

Jumping, nipping and calm thresholds are a major part of the training we do with our students at The Puppy Academy, and we know how much time and discipline it takes! Our goal is to make this as easy as possible for new puppy parents — and that’s what we’ve done in our Online School!

This is where you can follow our exact game plans, our tips that work, and speak 1-on-1 with our expert trainers to irradiate those puppy issues once and for all!

For more info, check out The Puppy Academy Online School here:

More Ways to Teach Your Puppy Good Overall Manners:

We covered three of the major puppyhood issues, but what about just teaching a puppy overall great manners so they’re polite no matter what situation you find themselves in? Watch our short video for more tips you can start implementing now! Heads up: We talk about using a puppy schedule which you can get here!

Have more questions about your puppy’s manners? Ask our trainers LIVE every Wednesday at 1 pm PT on our Instagram @thepuppyacademy during our Ask A Puppy Trainer Show! All replays are posted afterward, and you can catch up on our last ones on our YouTube channel or Podcast.

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How to Introduce Your New Puppy to Your Dog!

Puppy introductions, especially if you already have an older family dog, can be a little nerve-wracking. What if they don’t like each other?! Well, we’ve got useful and successful tips to help you introduce your puppy to your dog to make sure they’re off to the best start possible together!

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Bringing home a new puppy is an exciting time for the entire family — but is it for your older pup? We certainly want it to be! Introducing your new puppy to your family dog must be done thoughtfully and intentionally in order to set them both up to learn to co-habitat as family members, and build a lasting bond.

With the tips outlined in this blog, we’ll walk you through pre-planning for your pups' introduction and our expert trainers’ guidance to make the meeting process as smooth and enjoyable as possible! So if you’ve decided that today is the day for the big introduction, read up on our tips below! 

Not a fan of reading? Watch our top tips in this short video!:

Set the Stage for Your Pups to Meet!

1. Vaccinations

Before introducing your new puppy to your family dog, make sure that both of your pups are up-to-date on their vaccinations. Certain illnesses are easily transferable from an older dog to a young puppy (and vice versa) even if your older pup has had their vaccines in the past. This includes assuring both pups are clear of parasites like Giardia, Coccidia, as well as worms. (A fecal test through your vet can confirm your pups are clear of these!)

2. Go to a Neutral Location

Next, our recommendation to our Puppy Academy students’ parents is to bring their pups to a neutral location. Pick a place like around the corner from your house or at a nearby park for their first interaction. This will also mitigate any territorial behaviors and just allow your older puppy to engage with your new puppy without feeling like their space is being encroached.

3. Remove Your Current Pups’ Things

After their initial meetup outdoors, it’s time to move the introductions inside. In this scenario, you’ll want to create a neutral environment at home. It’s simple to do: temporarily remove your current pups’ toys, bowls, bed, and other items they may become possessive over in the presence of your new puppy, and put them in another room. In general, taking the time to create a comfortable and controlled space is a great tip, especially if you have any concerns about territorial behaviors bubbling up during your pups’ introduction.

4. No Sharing, Yet

Continue the neutrality of their initial few meetings for a few days, or even longer, if needed. You want to make each of their ongoing interactions go as smoothly and agreeable as possible! To do this, give your new puppy their own things: bed, toys, bowls, etc., as well as their own crate or playpen area with enough space for them to go to relax and want some time on their own. By keeping their items separate you are avoiding any potential for possessive behaviors, but also giving your puppy specific boundaries of things they can and can’t engage with.

How to Introduce Your New Puppy to the Family Dog!

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The Puppy Academy students: Charlie & Brodie!

There are a few different techniques you can use to ease your pups into their first meeting. 

1. Let your older pup get acquainted first by giving them something that belongs to your new puppy like a blanket or toy from their breeder or rescue. Let your current pup sniff and get used to being in the presence of that new scent ahead of time, maybe even a few days before setting a face-to-face introduction. 

2. For a controlled introduction, using a barrier such as a gate or playpen allows your pups to safely meet, sniff, and be around each other without physically interacting just yet. And you can use these tools each time they meet until they get their curiosity out of their system and are used to seeing each other. When the barrier finally comes down, keep a leash attached to each one of your pups, so you can easily guide them away from each other when needed.

3. Use training routines to your advantage as a way to help reduce any nerves and tension! Keeping them engaged in performing tasks versus just letting them loose in the yard and watching what happens, can help you maintain a calm and controlled experience. A new puppy might not know any commands just yet but your older pup can help show them how it’s done. Ask for a Sit, Stay, and Come, while letting your new puppy watch or play nearby. 

4. Extra love is NOT necessary! Your instinct may be to dote on your older pup so they don’t feel left out. Instead, just keep things to their regularly scheduled routine. This is far more effective at helping your pup understand nothing has changed with the addition of a new puppy and helps them feel more comfortable. 

5. Start working on establishing boundaries with your puppy from the very first day. You can read our blog on teaching your puppy good manners to deter them from jumping, mouthing and general “naughty” puppy complaints. Also, let your current pup continue to see you giving structure to your new pup by implementing a daily puppy schedule. This helps to maintain the established structure at home, and let’s your older pup still have some much needed alone time around the house.

6. Only let your pups engage together during specific times. Set controlled playtime instead of letting them be with each other all the time which can lead to over-stimulation or encourage your pups to develop what is called “pack mentality” (where your pups will only want to interact with each other and start feeding off each other's behaviors). In that situation, you might even notice your older pup starts to not listen as they did before. Once your pups have interacted, give them time to decompress and settle separately in their designated crate or just in a separate space in the room.

Pro tip: Two pups, two people! On the day of their introduction, enlist the help of a family member or close friend to help oversee the pups, handle their leash, and assist in activities like puppy training. This can take a lot of pressure of you, and make the whole greeting experience go much smoother.

Save our puppy introductions Cheat Sheet for easy reference:

 
 

Things to Look Out For During the Initial Meeting:

Of course, there are some watch-outs to look out for when introducing your puppy to your family dog. Puppies are still getting a handle on their surroundings and their energy. Older pups have learned the ropes of being part of the family, have their own established routines and might have mellowed out of the high puppy energy. Keep these points in mind when your pups are meeting for the first time so you know when your pups might need a little break.

Is Your Puppy Getting Overly Excited?

Puppy energy can be a lot to manage, especially for an adult dog! Watch your puppy to ensure they aren’t jumping all over, chewing on, nipping, barking at, and just becoming too much for your other pup. And vice versa! You might have an older pup that is playing too rough for a younger puppy. If you notice these behaviors in either one of them, it's a good opportunity to interrupt the play and to give them a little space to settle down on their own. Using a calming routine with your pups can be super effective at this time.

Watch for Body Language Cues

Notice if either of your pups start to back away in a corner or under a chair, if the hackles (the fur running down their spine) start to raise, and teeth-baring or growling start to occur. These body language signs are responses to either over-stimulation or tension which are good indicators that it’s time for another break from their activity together. Never force your pups to play or interact together. Give each pup space and time they need to get comfortable with each other and always advocate for the pup who's showing behaviors that are more submissive. Meaning, don't let one pup get "picked on" by the other. Step in for them if one is being too jumpy, too nippy, or too energetic for them, and you can tell the other is getting agitated or wants to run away. 

Supervision is Key

Always supervise your pups when they are put together and don’t let them “work it out” on their own. Young puppies often don’t understand the boundaries your older pup is trying to tell them just yet so will need you to step in. Keep their size in mind too! Larger breeds grow quickly and often aren’t aware of their size or strength and can unintentionally hurt a smaller pup during play.

Learn the Signs of Proper and Positive Socialization!

Knowing exactly what to look out for when your pups are socializing are key to maintaining positive experiences and setting them up for positive interactions — especially when they actually live with their playmates!

Learn body language cues, how and when to step in to pause playtime and how to foster a stronger bond between your family dog and new puppy (and any other pup they interact with) in our Online Puppy School!

You’ll be able to watch as our expert trainers walk you through real-time puppy socialization demos as well as be able interact directly with them for 1-on-1 advice.

Learn more about The Puppy Academy Online School and how it can help you make puppyhood easy here!

Have more questions about introducing your new puppy to the family dog? Ask our trainers LIVE every Wednesday at 1 pm PT on our Instagram @thepuppyacademy during our Ask A Puppy Trainer Show! All replays are posted afterward, and you can catch up on our last ones on our YouTube channel or Podcast.

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